allahswtsavedus:

By the noble Scholar Badr bin Ali Al-Utaybee.

Ibn Hibban narrated in his work Nazahti Al-Fadlaa the advice of Al-Khattaab bin Mu’laa Al-Makhzoomee to his son. At the end of his words he mentioned the following: “Know that women vary more than the fingers of your hand. So be cautious in dealing with them.”

Every Evil Women will inevitably harm you:

THE FIRST TYPE:

• The woman who is amazed with herself and belittles her husband.
• If he honors her she sees it not except as a result of her virtue over him.
• She shows no gratitude for his courtesy. In her eyes he always falls short.
• She lashes her tongue out at him like a sharp sword.
• Her imprudence has removed the cover of shyness from her face: she is not shy from exposing her faults even when in front of the neighbors.
• She is like a growling dog with rabies, barking and biting.
• Her husband’s face is sad, and his honor is violated with the people.
• She over burdens him with her bad etiquettes and does not tend to his worldly or religious affairs.
• Nor does she uphold her duties towards him in spite of his companionship and the many children they may share;
• she doesn’t recognize any good that he does.

• His covering is revealed and made public. All the good that he does is buried.
• He reaches the morning dispirited and enters the evening reprimanding her.
• His drink is sour. His food is rage. His children are wasted and his house is destroyed.
• His clothes is filthy and hair dishevel. If he laughs he is worn down, and if he speaks he feels sickened. His day is night; his night is misery.
• She bites him like a vicious snake, and stings like a scorpion.

THE SECOND TYPE:

• From amongst them are: The Shafsha’leeq (The relaxed and lazy woman), Sha’sha (The tall woman), Salfa’a (The blatantly ill-mannered woman), possessor of saturated poison, a spark of light yet worn out, she moves with the wind and flies with everyone who has wings.
• If her husband says “No” she says “Yes,” If he says “Yes” she says “No.”.
• She is born to disgrace him. She looks down at the good he has done for her, and belittles him by comparing him to other men.
• She moves him from one state to another, to the point that his home has become insignificant to him and his children have become a source of boredom.
• His life festers and he looks down upon himself. His brothers criticize him and his neighbors have mercy on him.

THE THIRD TYPE:

• Al-Warhaa (A foolish woman),
• flirtatious when not appropriate, speaks with a slur, and indulges herself in that which does not concern her.
• She’s content with her love, takes pleasure in his wealth, and eats like a grazing donkey.
• The sun has risen and he has yet to hear a word from her; her food is stale; her pots are stained; her baking dough is sour, her cooking water is lukewarm, plants can grow in her belongings, she doesn’t engage in the slightest of good deeds. She beats her servants and enrages her neighbors.

THE FORTH TYPE:

• Is the loving and affectionate woman, blessed child-bearing, can be trusted while she’s alone, loved by her neighbors, praiseworthy when in open or private, generous and kind in her marital dealings.
• Many virtues, she speaks softly, she keeps a clean house, her servants is well fed; her son is well kept,
• She is continuous in doing good deeds; her husband is well pleased.
• She’s a tender and affectionate lover. She is described by having chastity and doing much good.
• May Allah make you, Oh sister, from amongst those who follow the guidance and have taqwa, avoid Allah’s Anger and is pleased with his Pleasure!

This is the completion of his advice in which contains an important message of the praiseworthy and blameworthy descriptions of women.

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